In homage to Grerp, I'm now giving numbered advice.
Guys, one of the easiest things you can do to set yourselves apart from other guys is to learn to dance. And I don't mean just booty dancing. Even if you can grind with the best of them (and I certainly can), the way to set yourself apart is by learning a fun, structured, civilized dance such as salsa dancing or swing dancing. You'd be shocked at how easy salsa is to learn. Start with the basics and gradually move up. There's gotta be a cheap place near you where this is going on or lessons are going on. If not, find some youtube clips. (Readers, if you know of any, please post them in the comments.)
Women LOVE to be lead in dance. They love to be spun. They love to be moved around. Dancing allows you to show confidence and dominance and grace. Plus it's kino escalation. Git r done.
Stop procrastinating and learn. Then, don't be afraid to bust it out at house parties or bars. You'll crush all before you.