tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913456255927408029.post1025371678278707593..comments2023-10-08T10:06:45.419-04:00Comments on Game for Marriage: What Christian Men Can Learn From Pick Up Artists For The Vocation Of Marriage: Alte on male chastityAugustine DeCarthagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08799651138836773566noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913456255927408029.post-53953592200732151852011-01-25T19:08:27.067-05:002011-01-25T19:08:27.067-05:00Thanks for coming by and commenting, Strong Man. ...Thanks for coming by and commenting, Strong Man. It really is all about self-control and confidence, isn't it? That qualities are key to building attraction to, which is ultimately the way out of this problem.Augustine DeCarthagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08799651138836773566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913456255927408029.post-6730148686705888832011-01-25T14:03:43.006-05:002011-01-25T14:03:43.006-05:00This is a huge issue--you've addressed it well...This is a huge issue--you've addressed it well. Often, we put too much guilt on young men before their married because of these natural urges, then they feel guilty, imperfect, and not confident.<br /><br />We should teach the principle of chastity, but not get too much into the stress of occasional solo masturbation. They key, I feel, is to focus more on other issues of self-control: getting up early to exercise, physical activity such as weightlifting or sports practice, etc. <br /><br />If we build self-control and confidence in other areas, we'll naturally be stronger in this area, without stressing about it and always feeling guilty.Strong Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03397861817336193206noreply@blogger.com